Do You "Dabble"?

Sex is such a flexible activity.  Not as in the participants are flexible (though that certainly doesn't hurt), rather, the same position/same partner/same location can change with one movement or addition to the game.  I find people who cheat using the excuse of "boredom" to be some of the laziest assholes on the planet.  

Everything should be on the table.  I'm not into bondage hard-core like true followers of the BDSM scene, but I've been known to dabble.  I don't have a closet full of costumes but I've personally experienced the joys of adding the imagination of role-playing.  Porn isn't a regular occurrence for me but there are a few that caught my attention without making me feel sorry for the actors and I added them to my library.  

If you're a steak and potatoes kind of sexual partner, there is nothing wrong with that.  The basic, down-and-dirty, go until you pass out or dehydrate has a lot going for it.  

My only suggestion to you?  Consider adding a topper of grilled mushrooms or a side cranberry walnut salad...push your boundaries if you don't feel comfortable breaking through them.  Keep it interesting for yourself and your partner.  Sex should be fun.  Sex should be exciting.  More than just the end result should interest you.  Dabble.  Learn what you like.  Try everything.  If you don't like it, move on.  If you do like it, do it again.  And again.  And again.

Boredom is such a dirty word.

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